Post #20: Chivalry…Is it really Dead? 

I’ve observed something that I see almost everyday. A lot of women complain that chivalry is dead. And I’ll admit, it’s definitely lacking in this day and age. Personally, however, I don’t think it’s dead…I think it’s conditional. It’s become a thing that a lot of guys showcase when they feel a girl is worthy of it. When a guy is trying to impress a … Continue reading Post #20: Chivalry…Is it really Dead? 

Post #17: Me, Myself, and I

Do you remember Beyonce’s song Me, Myself, and I? (Personally, it’s one of my top 5 favorites lol). However, listening to it really made me think. A lot of people do not know how to be alone. There’s this misconception that being alone or spending time with yourself is like walking into a fatal black alley. You need time with just yourself. It gives you … Continue reading Post #17: Me, Myself, and I

Post #15: Let People Sleep on You

Let people sleep on you. I repeat, let people sleep on you. Let them underestimate you and undermine what you can accomplish. A lot of times, people will overlook you and your success. They will try to sell you the lie that you aren’t good enough and they will try to discourage you from your goals. Remember that you only have to prove something to … Continue reading Post #15: Let People Sleep on You

Post #14: A Father vs A Dad

I don’t think a lot of people realize the difference between a father and a dad. There are plenty of “fathers” out there. They lay down with a woman and produce this amazing work of art, but they leave the painting unfinished. A father’s work begins and ends at conception. A father may acknowledge the child and support the child financially, but their work in their … Continue reading Post #14: A Father vs A Dad

Post #13: That itch you can’t scratch 

Even the strongest of the strongest women get “the itch”. It tends to creep up on us as soon as we see the light at the end of the tunnel. It’s been a while since you and your significant other have parted ways and all of a sudden, you’re at this “itch” stage where you’re wondering what they’re doing, random thoughts of them suddenly pop … Continue reading Post #13: That itch you can’t scratch 

Post #12: He can’t afford your mortgage 

Have you ever been invested in a guy? So much so, that the benefit on his end is much greater than yours? A good friend of mine used to call this: “building a house”. See when you build a house for a guy, just like in reality you start with the foundation. You both starting getting to know him, becoming friends, and forming a genuine … Continue reading Post #12: He can’t afford your mortgage