Post #11: The Opinion that Matteredย 

I always wanted everyone to like me. If there were 300 people in the room and only one person didn’t like me, I was determined to figure out why and what I could do to change their mind. Even though, more often times than not, I knew their dislike for me was for no reason at all, I was still determined to have their acceptance. … Continue reading Post #11: The Opinion that Matteredย 

Post #10: The Reason Behind A Parent’s Madness

I grew up in a strict a household…very strict. I am pretty sure if you look up strict in the dictionary, you’d see my parents picture. I couldn’t hang out with friends late (if at all), parties were out of the question, and anything that didn’t start and end with school or church was irrelevant. Not only were they strict, they were hard on me…and … Continue reading Post #10: The Reason Behind A Parent’s Madness

Post #9: Why He Chose You Second

Have you ever been labeled the “wifey type”? Everybody tells you you’re the type of girl you marry. Why wouldn’t they? You’re beautiful, you’re smart, you’re charismatic…the epitome of the “type of girl you bring home to meet your mom”. All this going for you and yet, guys still pick you second. We’re in a generation where guys will have feelings for a great girl, … Continue reading Post #9: Why He Chose You Second

Post #8: Social Media: Perception vs Reality

I love social media. A lot of us do. I mean, I probably get on Instagram and Snapchat at least 5 or 6 times a day (@LOChinwe for any fellow snappers out there) However, as great as social media can be, people tend to fall into the trap of comparing their real life, with the perceptions of real life that they see online. One of … Continue reading Post #8: Social Media: Perception vs Reality

Post #7: “He’s not good enough for you”

I have to be honest, many women today are cheating themselves. When I look around on Social Media or amongst my peers, I see so many women settling. I am not talking about settling for a mans looks, job, or social status,… I mean settling in treatment…settling in what they deserve. I know what I am going to say may sound harsh and I know … Continue reading Post #7: “He’s not good enough for you”

Post #6: “True friends are like classics, there’s nothing like them”

I think we all have TONS of associates, but rarely does anyone have a lot of friends. I am not talking about the people you say hi to, engage in small talk with, or the people you turn up with on Saturday nights. I am talking about your truest of friends. The ones that know you in and out…and have been there through the good, … Continue reading Post #6: “True friends are like classics, there’s nothing like them”